Legally Mom

Marriage is going stronger than ever, reports a recent article in the New York Times.

“Despite strong social riptides working against it — the liberalization of divorce laws, the vanishing stigma of divorce, the continual online temptations of social sites like MySpace or Facebook — the marriage bond is far stronger in 21st-century America than many may assume. Infidelity is one of the most common reasons cited by people who divorce. But surveys find the majority of people who discover a cheating spouse remain married to that person for years afterward. Many millions more shrug off, or work through, strong suspicions or evidence of infidelity. And recent trends in marriage suggest that the institution itself has become more resilient in recent years, not less so,” authors Benedict Carey and Tara Parker-Pope report.

“[O]ne of the most commonly cited statistics about marriage is that half of marriages end in divorce,” the article continues. “But that number reflects the expected lifetime divorce rate of people married in the 1970s…The story is different for more-recently married couples. A comparison of 10-year divorce rates among college-educated men married in the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s shows that divorce is becoming less common, said Dr. Stevenson, the Wharton researcher. Among men who married in the 1970s, for example, about 23 percent had divorced by the 10th year of marriage. Among similar men married in the 1980s, about 20 percent had divorced by the 10th year. Men married in the 1990s are doing even better — with a 10-year divorce rate of 16 percent.”

Whatever we may attribute the decreasing rates to, I like the outcome–here’s to stronger marriages everywhere!